porn, sorry

[rach71]

had a little issue of someone looking at porn on the laptop recently ....i know its normal and red blooded-got john to check site for any sort of perversion or anything inappropriate but it was just toless women

parental filters are now on

and a nuts n zoo magazine r on order each week lol



hes my baby!

[Insomniac]

Are we talking full on porn or just People type images honey?

You poor love. I've got SO much to look forward to haven't I!

[duck duck]

gosh this is going to be all new ground for me when Anthony's older.....

[rach71]

just stll pictures of nekkid women

no kids
no men
no video

[keepsmiling]

I will always remember when Aaron was about 14 he went to bed my little boy and when I went in his room the next morning there were pictures of topless ladies everywhere and I mean EVERYWHERE,
he had a cabin bed and on each step of the ladder there was one
there were ones in place of all the numbers on his clock
one on his lightswitch
you name it they were there
it only lasted a very short time, we didn't say anything to him and they soon disappeared only to be replaced a few years later by the real thing lol

[duck duck]

lol I can just imagine the booby room...lol

I think I'd do the same, not make a big deal about it and just bring it up in conversation.....I mean bless we've even discussed Flo's collection of books with him...lol after Amy found his stash of mags. I love the fact that Amy's so comfortable in chatting to us about things like that.

hey hun at least he's only looking at females and not men, it could have been worse... (no I have nothing against gays etc...each to their own lol)

[x Just Sarah x]

Hi, do you mind if I ask how old he is?
I mean, there's a big differnce is he's 9 or 29 hee hee.

Either way, sounds like you're doing well and keeping calm. You're right- it's a 'normal' hot-blooded male thing.
I just make sure to tell my son not to have any unrealistic expectations from what he sees. (not as if I encourage him, but I know he looks haha)

[Insomniac]

Ryan is 14 Sarah ... or should I have put 15 Rach? It's hard to know anymore ... it seems like yesterday he was only 10 like Conor!!!!

I think you had the best idea KS ... just to ignore it and let the phase pass by. I'd like to think that when my boys get to that stage ... which they will eventually ... they'll feel comfortable to chat about their 'collections' and that it won't be a case of sniggering over girly mags behind closed doors and with their mates.

I think it's fabulous that Amy is so open with Flo's collection too! It doesn't mean that our fellas prefer the women in the mags more than us ... it's just a boy thing!!! Boobs are there to be looked at!

I'd draw the line at full on porn that you can find online at any click of the button ... but again it's something that if you keep the doors of communication open ... it may not turn into an issue but instead be a passing interest.

I like your comment Sarah ... it's very sound advice to tell a fella ... I just make sure to tell my son not to have any unrealistic expectations from what he sees.

[rach71]

lol yep i like the reaslistic side of it....hes 14 going on 20 i think sarah...so all natural uriosity lol...but hes my baby!!
I know what u mean duckie...I am not homophobic or anything but I know john would have bneen very upset and would have struggled if Ryan had ever not shown an interest in women lol

[Insomniac]

My boys are already bad ... especially Conor! Some girly will come on the telly with big "boobies" as Carson has now called the 'girls' of girls ... and he'll wolf whistle ... "hey Dad ... check out this girl's girls!"

It doesn't go outside the home though!!!! Well at least not as far as I know! I just tell Conor if he carries on like that in the real world ... the only set of 'girls' he'll ever have laid his eyes on ... would be mine!!!